Self-Love for Successful Achievers
To love yourself fully is the hidden aspiration behind all ambition. Beyond every achievement is the desire to rest easily in the knowledge of your basic goodness, to know your intrinsic worthiness and your absolute lovability, and to enjoy an unconditional sense of purpose and belonging. An awakened soul can never be satisfied with anything less, and there is no better source of inspiration and guidance for anyone who wants to accomplish great things in this world.
Unconditional self-love is synonymous with wellbeing, clarity, satisfaction and joy, and it is the ultimate embodiment of true success.
It is the reward so many of us have blindly and passionately been reaching for. It is the foundation for enjoying everything that you might accomplish or obtain in this world, material or otherwise. With it, all is well. Without it, contentment remains just out of reach.
Have you reached this insight yet? Sometimes it comes painfully, through loss, conflict, or disillusionment, but the clarity it brings is ultimately meant to inspire, to guide, and to be enjoyed.
Are you still using negative emotion and unpleasant self-talk to try and motivate yourself? Do you try to bargain with yourself using systems of self-reward and self-punishment?
Most people are doing this, because most people have inherited some version of it without realizing it. It’s so common that it is considered “normal”, and it often goes unquestioned until it becomes unbearably painful. Whether you catch it early, or whether it has to create significant suffering before you confront it in yourself, the remedy is the same, and it is always available.
Unconditional self-love isn’t complicated or difficult. It arises spontaneously when you provide the right conditions, because it is your true nature.
Unconditional self-love can be compatible with therapy and the various personal development and healing journeys we undertake, but it does not depend on these things. It is not won through self-improvement or hard work. It is the most basic, most natural, and simplest way of understanding your life purpose and being in right relationship with yourself.
I worked as a therapist and counsellor specializing in marriage and relationships for over a decade, and over the course of my career I earned a worldwide reputation as an expert in my field, helping hundreds of individuals and couples across the globe. (You can see the culmination of this work here, and I do still work with select couples who want to improve their relationship through the methods I teach.)
A number of years ago I came to the clear realization that no amount of conventional attachment-based couples counselling or relationship therapy can deliver results as valuable as those that come with understanding and enriching the primary relationship with Self. When you attend to your self-love and emotional development correctly, relationship issues tend to resolve themselves.
Today, I teach only one thing, though I approach it from many directions. We each become ready for unconditional self-love in our own unique way, and because I know this territory so intimately, both personally and professionally, I am able to guide all kinds of people on their personal path toward befriending themselves completely and being nothing but kind and gentle with themselves always. It is from here that the next chapter of satisfaction and success begins for anyone who has become ready.
I provide initial short-term consulting in the form of four scheduled weekly telephone calls. After this, we may choose to continue working together on a month-to-month coaching basis for as long as you are receiving benefit. For some of my clients, I have become a long-term personal mentor on their journey of self-love and self-discovery.
Expect our conversations to deliver practical and actionable “real world” results, and also to provide mental and emotional clarity, soothing, and satisfaction.
If you are interested in working with me, request a client information package by email. Please include your country of residence.
email: justice@justiceschanfarber.com
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